Ms Leslie Pavlasek ~ SFA ’22-’23

Leslie Pavlasek SFA Recipient

Meet one of our two SFA Recipients for this year. Leslie Pavlasek is a Senior this year and is a well rounded student. She enjoys cooking, plays trombone and is in the Marching and Roaring Buzzsaw Pep Band. You will notice her right hand is purple from the Big DIP celebration when she received her SFA ring.

Her answer to an SFA form question touched my heart. The question was: If you had two minutes with the donor, what would you say to him/her?

Leslie’s answer: I would thank them for the generous gift they are giving me. I would like to learn more history about their daughter, her legacy at SFA and give them my condolences.

You can read her thank you note and learn her and her Mom’s struggles after losing their home in a tornado. I’m glad we can play a small part in helping her reach her goal of becoming a culinary instructor one day.


Ms Devin Garcia ~ LHS 2022

Devin is our LHS recipient for this year. She is an inspiring young woman and has a strong drive to better herself and help others. At a young age family circumstances led to her and her siblings being raised by her grandparents. She helps with chores at home, taking care of her siblings and still studies hard. She was ranked 38 out of 463 students. She graduated with 51 college hours and an Associate of Arts in General Studies. Because of her circumstances growing up and the issues her family has faced, she wants to be a mental health therapist and will be majoring in Psychology at SFASU. With her hard work so far, her determination and desire to help others…I’m sure she will accomplish that goal!

Ms Devin Garcia and Angie Roper of LHSAA Board.

Grannie Joy ~ Joy Fredrick

I’ve started this post several times.  I can’t seem to figure out where to start.  In the beginning or at the end…at what year…in what place?  On top of the fact how do you say all you want to…without it turning into a book…although that is what she deserves and more!!  But she would only want Jesus to shine…not her!  And He did shine through her, in so many ways, to each and every person, multiple thousands I’m sure, she encountered in her life.  And add to that the untold numbers that benefitted from the ripple effect of her giving heart, as she served and shared, to spread His love.

I’ll start with…We are sad our mentor and friend, Joy Fredrick, passed from this earth on August 17th.  We’re sad because we can’t see her, hear her infectious laugh or speak with her again.  We had plans go to Colorado this past July, she was on the list of people to visit but a personal issue came up and we weren’t able to go.  We are sad we didn’t get to see and hug her one last time.  But we know she is happy and well in her Heavenly home.  I can easily imagine her walking the streets of gold, talking to her “neighbors”, laughing, whooping it up and hanging out with her BFF…Jesus, her Lord and Savior…and the rest of the Heavenly family.  She isn’t sad and wouldn’t want us to be either.  She loved and served her Lord every day.  I have no doubt when He welcomed her home, with open arms, He said “Well done, good and faithful servant.”

I have known Grannie Joy, as she liked to be called, since I was in elementary school and lived in the same neighborhood.  She had peacocks in her yard, I think some just migrated from her neighbors the Tinkle’s yard.  I would warn my friends spending the night, don’t be scared if they heard screaming…it was just the peacocks hollering…lol.  I sold her and other neighbors rocks I had picked up from someone’s driveway.  I used those nickels, dimes and quarters, if I was lucky, to go to the corner store and buy a little, brown bag’s worth of penny candy.  I also picked up the beautiful molted, “eye” peacock tail feathers and sold them to other neighbors…for you guessed it…penny candy.

Later in life, married with small children, we ran into Grannie Joy one day.  In catching up she invited us to First United Methodist Church and the Sunday School class she taught.  She and Charles, her husband, taught the Serendipity Class, for many, many years.  We weren’t happy where we were attending church so we tried her class and ended up joining the church.  Lauren and Taylor were about four and two, respectively, and we all grew up under her guidance and mentoring.  She got us all involved helping and participating in church activities and missions through the years.  We played roles in An Evening in Bethlehem the church put on each December.  We built wheelchair ramps, cooked quarterly for God-Tel, a local shelter, helped put on VBS at smaller churches, painted houses for people in need and more.  Once our SS Class even raised money to buy a man a good, used mobile home because we couldn’t repair his.  Grannie Joy had an infectious laugh, joy and spirit about her and it could be hard to tell her “No” sometimes…lol.  So we did all kinds of things…loving almost every minute of it…sometimes it was hot, sweaty, dirty work.  If you were on the receiving end and tried to turn her down…”Don’t deny me my blessing” was her favorite phrase!  She truly wanted to “bless you” with had she had or could do for you because she wanted to share and spread the love of Jesus.  She had a servant’s heart and was truly the hands and feet of Christ.

Grannie Joy & Lauren
Confirmation Sunday April 2000

Lauren picked and asked Grannie Joy to be her Mentor, a year long commitment, for Confirmation in sixth grade.  Lauren had made a profession of faith and had accepted Jesus as her Lord and Savior in the third grade.  That Christmas Grannie Joy gave Lauren a hand beaded, scalloped sea shell ornament…a symbol of baptism in Christianity…and still hangs on our tree every Christmas.   Grannie Joy delighted in Lauren accepting Jesus and helped her grow her faith even more.  As her mentor, they got together several times a month, visited and did activities together.   They would go see Grannie Joy’s Nun friends at the Infant of the Monastery Jesus. They took food to the bereaved in the church or to people in need.  They baked cookies for Kairos, a prison ministry.   Sometimes they would just go get ice cream and chat.   It was a very special year for Lauren and I believe Grannie Joy too…they formed a tight bond.  At the end of their year together she gave Lauren a James Avery Fleuree Cross charm and necklace.  I have no doubt that was very likely the start of Lauren’s love of JA Jewelry.   She loved and wore that cross necklace often and had it on when she passed away.  I now wear that cross, with a new chain because it was broken in the hospital, every day since Lauren passed 11 years ago.  Only taking it off to clean it periodically but putting it right back on.  It’s a special piece that is now doubled…in memory of my daughter and a dear family friend…it’s value to me is immeasurable. 

Charles and Joy moved to Colorado Springs, Colorado in 2005 to be near their two sons and families.  We all missed them dearly but kept in contact, catching up on each other’s lives, by emails and phone calls, several times a year.  We went to go see them in September of 2009 and visited for several days.  She happily showed us her new church there and where she helped homeless individuals in her community.   They were enjoying their new lives and activities, their sons, grandchildren and soon great grands.  Funny story here:  We went to Colorado, in our RV, in the summer of 1998 and one stop was a few nights in Manitou Springs, which is near Colorado Springs.  We went into a Sam’s Club for supplies and Bryan spotted a young teenager with a Crown Colony t-shirt on.  He said ” I gotta ask them how they got the t-shirt and tell them we are from Lufkin.”  Well low and behold…it was their granddaughter and daughter-in-law…we all had a good laugh!!  Later we called Grannie Joy, back in Lufkin, and told her who we had run into in Colorado…lol.

As most of you know Lauren died from injuries sustained in a 4-wheeler wreck on March 7th, 2010.  She was an honors student at Stephen F Austin State University and about to graduate in August with a degree in Hospitality Management.   Because she was so close to being finished,  SFASU posthumously graduated her in May 2010.  After a brief explanation from the University President, he and Dr. Roy Dean Alston, her grandfather who had taught there for 40 years, handed her diploma to Taylor and Bryan Alston, her brother and father.. amid a standing ovation from the whole stadium.  Had Grannie Joy still lived in Lufkin she would have been one of the first ones at the hospital and our house, doing anything and everything she could to help us through that tragic event in our lives.  Because you never expect to bury a child, you don’t think about planning their funeral, you’re not prepared and are in shock.   But we knew quickly, in the planning stage, we wanted Grannie Joy to do the Eulogy and Clay Walker, her former Youth Pastor to handle her service.  Thankfully she said “Yes, I will do this for you and Lauren” and so she flew in from Colorado.   She did a wonderful job speaking from her heart, about Lauren, their experiences together and Jesus.  

Grannie Joy was also the kind of person who personally hand wrote letters, cards and notes and I still have some I received through the years.  Her handwriting is pretty and so destintive.  One letter is even more special than all the others.   When she arrived from Colorado to do Lauren’s eulogy she came to our home and gave us the letter and told us what it said.   She said, with a strained half laugh, “You might think I’m crazy when I tell you this.”  She had heard about Lauren’s accident on Saturday and had been praying for her since then.  She went to church on Sunday morning and had her church praying too.  After she got home from church she sat on the steps leading down to her livingroom, looking out the big picture windows, at the big, puffy, white clouds.   She was praying for Him to heal Lauren’s body and for us and Taylor.  She said “Jesus, I give you my friend in faith Lauren, I’m trusting you and handing her into your care for you know what is best for her.”  She continued to pray and a few minutes later she said, “Y’all I saw in those beautiful, puffy, white clouds Lauren running into Jesus’s arms.  Just plain as day, I saw it.”  We briefly sat there stunned, soaking it in…then started crying.  We told her “No, we don’t think you’re crazy and we believe you.  What you saw is a comfort to us and confirmation of where she is…with Jesus in Heaven.”   

Grannie Joy impacted our lives and we will never forget her! She was a beautiful woman inside and outside. She lived her faith every day and we will honor her memory by continuing her legacy of helping others.

Joy Anderson Fredrick Obituary

PS: I’m going to miss her comments on my blogs. She always had positive and encouraging words to say. Her last comment was a post in February.

Love you…I’m gonna miss you my friend! 💛❤💛

Climbing mountains for clean water

At the peak of Mt Harvard in Colorado
These guys are the perfect example of what our Love, Action, Faith Scholarship is intended for. They showed their Love of others who have a need for clean water, by an Action of climbing an over 14K ft tall mountain to raise funds for repairing water wells in Malawi, because of their Faith in Jesus Christ.

What a beautiful day for climbing and raising money for repairing water wells in Malawi.
Below is what Keith wrote and the links if you would also like to contribute to this worthy endeavor. They are listed as Harrison Family at the Clean Water Climb link below. **Note: Because we sent in a check it is not currently included in the total raised so far** 💛 Be sure to read till the end for a sweet and funny story about Lauren and Keith.  He is married to Christina, one of Bryan’s first cousins. 💛 This July, two of my sons (Hunter and Luke) and I will be teaming up with a group to climb Mt. Harvard, the third highest peak in Colorado, and the fourth highest in the lower 48 states (14,420). This trip will combine three of my favorite things…time with my boys, spending time in the beautiful mountains of Colorado, and making a difference in the lives of people. You might be wondering how a trip to the Rocky Mountains doing something I love is going to make a difference in the lives of people, especially people on the other side of the world. This trip will be a part of a Clean Water Climb ( which partners with Child Legacy International ( Child Legacy International Inc. is a Christian non-profit organization working in Africa to transform lives by providing opportunities that break the generational cycle of poverty and despair, and support each person’s pursuit of their God-given destiny. Money raised from this trip will be used directly to repair water wells throughout the country of Malawi.  Malawi is one of the poorest and least developed countries in the world. Millions of people throughout the country don’t have access to a clean or reliable water source. Since 2008, Child Legacy has been repairing wells throughout the country, and to date, has provided clean water to over 9 million people (45% of the country) by repairing over 4600 wells. There is still much work to do and many people to help. One of my favorite things about this process of repairing wells and bringing clean water to the people of Malawi, is that when the wells are repaired the Gospel of Jesus is shared with the villagers as well. While physical water flows from the wells, the living water of Jesus is offered to the villagers. Countless lives have been changed and transformed by the power of the Gospel through Child Legacy and this mission. The average cost to repair one well is $1250. One well can provide water to 100’s and even 1000’s of people for years. In fact, for every dollar raised approximately 1.5 people can drink clean water for up to 5 years. My family and I would love to raise enough money to repair three wells ($3750 – one for each of us going) and provide clean water for 10’s of thousands of people for many years to come. We can only do it with your help! The cost of our trip has been covered, so any money you donate will go directly to repairing wells for the people of Malawi. That’s right, 100% of the money raised through this site will go to repairing wells and bringing one of life’s essential resources to people who desperately need it. I would love for you to prayerfully consider partnering with us and making an impact of the people and the country of Malawi. No gift is too small.  Thank you in advance for the difference you will make! Blessings, Keith, Hunter, and Luke Harrison 💛  When Christina and Keith started dating she brought him to the family reunion and introduced him to everyone.  He made a great impression on everyone because he is friendly, easy to talk to, has a great smile and handsome too.  Apparently Lauren became enamoured with Keith because in front of Christina she told Keith…”I’m going to marry you!”  Age didn’t matter to her… she was 7 and Keith was 23 yrs old…lol.  Christina said “She was gonna try to beat me to him.  It was so cute and bold of her.”  I said “We did teach her to ask for what she wanted.”  We all still laugh about it.  I would have been happy to have Keith as a son-in-law, but he was the perfect guy for Christina.  They have been married over 23 years and have 4 awesome boys.💛

Ainsley and Butterflies

Spreading her wings to fly

Lauren liked to babysit, kid sit really, and had several families she sat for. Ainsley and Preston Miller were two of her favorite kiddos. Tammy and David, their parents, were like second parents to Lauren, definitely the “cooler parents” over Bryan and I. They were more like older siblings that she went to for advice and guidance. The whole family loved on and cared for my girl…I’m thankful for the special connection they had.

Ainsley has danced since she was very young. Lauren went to see her in The Nutcracker.

Ainsley graduated from Lufkin High School this year. She loves to design and sew clothing and even sewed her prom dress, a beautiful blue and black lace dress, this year. Lauren had “a love thing” for James Avery jewelry so we thought a sewing machine charm was perfect for Ainsley’s graduation gift.

I also wanted to give her a piece of Lauren’s own personal jewelry. I chose a silver butterfly bracelet with pink, peach and green ribbons on it. I thought it looked like something Ainsley would wear and might enjoy.

I didn’t want to risk these special items getting lost in the mail. So I sent them back with Taylor, our son and also close with the Miller’s, to personally deliver them to Ainsley. Taylor chatted a few minutes with Ainsley and Tammy and left before Ainsley opened her gift. She immediately started crying when she saw the butterfly bracelet, which was the first thing she saw in the box. Tammy was concerned and asked her what was wrong. She said ” I didn’t think I would ever see this bracelet again. Lauren would let me wear it and play with it when she babysat. One time Preston was watching a movie I didn’t like and she gave it to me to play with while we sat watching the movie.” Tammy had no idea of that connection and memory of that bracelet for Ainsley…nor did I, when I chose it for her. She also got out a butterfly hair clip to show her Mom, that was Lauren’s, and she had given to Ainsley one time while sitting for the family. Neither Tammy or I knew about that little gift either.

Ainsley called me immediately to share about her memories with the butterfly bracelet. We were all blown away and crying about the significance of the bracelet. I’m so glad I picked that particular piece of Lauren’s jewelry for Ainsley. It was a God wink, for all of us, for sure!

And of course she loved the sewing machine charm and it’s currently being added to her charm bracelet. She also thanked me for both gifts, one priceless and one special. We also chatted about how excited she was to be attending Texas Women’s University in the fall.

Ainsley is leaving her cocoon and spreading her wings to fly. One day when she is a famous designer, maybe she will wear that butterfly bracelet while showing her new design collection on a New York runway .

Beautiful Ms. Ainsley Miller

Kelly Allen ~ SFA 20-21

Kelly Allen is our 2020- 2021 SFA scholarship recipient. Because Covid is still active, there wasn’t a reception and we didn’t get to meet her in person. We asked for a photo of Kelly but the one sent was small and got really blurry when enlarged. But below is a lovely Thank You note from her.

LHS 2020 – Alexis Ferguson

Things are a little different this year for meeting our LHS Recipient.  With the Covid virus wrecking the plans of the Class of 2020 and because of social distancing we were not able to meet our recipient in person.  We truly miss putting a face with the name we chose, visiting with them and learning more about their hopes, dreams and goals for their life.  So we don’t have a picture from Awards Night, like we have in the past, because it was cancelled.


But I’m very happy to announce our Lufkin High School LAF Recipient this year.  Her name is Alexis Ferguson.  She has been active in FFA all 4 yrs at LHS.  She has served in various different capacities like Historian, Sentinel, Fundraising and did service work on local, state and national levels during those yrs.  She has shown pigs and lambs and learned life skills in the show ring and out.  Alexis has also been active in Drug Free All Stars, Diamond Dolls and Kyssed Club.  She works in her father’s business during the fall and works at a snow cone stand in the summer.  All four years of high school she has been taking concurrent classes at Angelina Jr.College.  Wow…what has she not done should be the question.  Alexis wants to major in Speech Pathology, obtain her masters degree and be a speech therapist to work with children or in a hospital.  With what she has accomplished so far I have no doubt she can reach that goal also.  Best wishes to Alexis Ferguson.


Face Masks

We are presently living in some uncertain times with the Covid virus that is circulating around the world.  A week ago I was in the grocery store and a woman had a bag of over 75 masks, she had sewn, and was giving away to anyone who didn’t have one.  She offered me one and I asked her to give it to someone more vulnerable than me.  She insisted I take one and so I did.  She said she had been a quilter for over 40 years and now knew why God had told her to hang on to the scraps all these years.  I thanked her and said what a blessing she was to others during this time.

Later that day my friend, Betty Harrison, put out a plea on Facebook asking where to find more material and supplies so she could continue making face masks.  She had run out of options and prayed for God to provide, if he wanted her to continue making them.  Betty had been making the masks and donating them to health care workers, family, friends and anyone needing a mask for protection…whether it was by their own health or a job.  It has given her a purpose while staying home and is a joy to be helping others.  I told her about my mask encounter earlier and said what a blessing both of these ladies were.  Then it clicked… I wanted to be a part of Betty’s outreach of help others.  So I gave her a Love, Action, Faith Scholarship.  After all what she is doing was an excellant example of…showing love to others, through her making mask, because of her faith…the intent and purpose of these scholarships.  Betty was thankful and said she was honored to do this in Lauren’s name.

20200417_152543My friend Betty Harrison.  May God bless you for being His hands and feet during this time.

And in the pictures above her are her skilled hands and some of the many, colorful masks she has made for local children and adults. 

Other Side of the World

Other side of the World

Sometimes family just blows your mind…in a good way though.  I have the best Brother-in-Love and Sister-in-Love….Yes, Love not Law.  The “Law” part doesn’t matter to them…they love me unconditionally and are always showing me, and many countless others, God’s love and grace.  They don’t just love me because I’m related to them but because that is their heart and soul.


We recently moved and Julie asked me for my new address.  I told her as long as she wasn’t sending me a bill I would give it to her…we both got a good laugh.  A few days later a packet arrived in the mail.  I opened it up… started reading… then started crying.  I was blown away….Wow…just WOW!

The Other Side of the World


 In Memory and Honor of Lauren they had purchased the construction of a water well to be built in Uganda, Africa.  It will be built in a village of over 2400 people and supply them with safe, clean drinking water.  A plaque will be added with her name and a specially picked scripture.

 “For we do not grieve as those who have no hope…”

 1 Thessalonians 4:13

Hope is what we have, as children of God, that one day we will see Lauren again and meet our Heavenly Father, when we leave this earthly life.

We have HOPE


I know without a shadow of a doubt that Lauren would be proud, thrilled and probably giddy too… to have her name on a life giving water well around the world….And to play a part in helping people, of all ages, have a much better quality of life.

Example of a water well. You can see a plaque, for another person, in the second picture.

The John 4:14 Foundation : Life Giving Water around the World : Awesome!!

.Thank You Julie and Todd for honoring Lauren’s life in such a special way!!  You are “the hands and feet of Christ” to us and so many!  We love you both to infinity!!

LHS 2019 ~ Miracle Murphy


Miracle Murphy is our LHS Recipient for 2019.  She is smart, articulate, compassionate and well rounded young woman.    She was a Sr Sergeant of the Drill Team, mentor to incoming freshman, VP of a Club and became a Team Leader at 17 for Chick-Fil-A.  She is planning on a double major of Nursing and Criminal Psychology.  Those two fields both involve helping others when in pain, whether it’s physically or mentally.  She has a personal reason, a survivor of a traumatic event, that has compelled her to help others because that is when she feels strongest.   In the future Miracle would like to open a mental health care clinic, in a poverty stricken area, to bring awareness to mental health issues and help those in need.

Miracle is going to concentrate on her studies her first year at SFASU and will continue working part time at Chick-Fil-A where she is now in a Manager type position.  She still loves to dance and hopes to join the dance team after getting her first year of college under her belt.  As I said in the beginning…she is a smart girl.  I look forward to seeing where she goes in life.